Don't trust too much :)!
You might think people are your friends but the truth is they're backstabbers.
They pretend their your friends so you could tell them your darkest secrets.. Then? Everyone's talking about your reputation.
Even your best friend since KG could turn out to be your worst enemy.
They'll go talking behind your back then leave you.
Is it really worth trusting them?
There are good people in this world.
Still, don't trust them!
Don't tell other people's secrets to anyone. You never know what the 'friend' you're telling secrets to might do. They might even record you.
Not everyone is as good as you think, people can act.
Even when you need a shoulder to cry on, you don't need anyone to talk to. Get a paper and a pencil. Write things down.
"It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend".
Depend on yourself and yourself only!
Friday, 31 May 2013
Thursday, 23 May 2013
Clarifications
Dear teenagers,
Just because SHE retweeted you doesn't mean she loves you. Doesn't mean she's stalking you. Your tweet came up on her timeline. Maybe one of her following retweeted your tweet, she liked it then she retweeted it.
Just because someone tweets love quotes, doesn't mean they're in love. Some quotes are really good.
Just because someone tweeted "I miss you" doesn't mean its for their girlfiriend/boyfriend.
There are many many many more examples but these really bug me.
Stop judging, will you?
Just because SHE retweeted you doesn't mean she loves you. Doesn't mean she's stalking you. Your tweet came up on her timeline. Maybe one of her following retweeted your tweet, she liked it then she retweeted it.
Just because someone tweets love quotes, doesn't mean they're in love. Some quotes are really good.
Just because someone tweeted "I miss you" doesn't mean its for their girlfiriend/boyfriend.
There are many many many more examples but these really bug me.
Stop judging, will you?
Saturday, 18 May 2013
People
People? Two kinds.
There are good people, with big hearts. Like my Meriam, never did I meet a friend who cares for me this much. Hold on to them. Someday they might change, and you might hate it! You'll learn from them. If they leave you, keep in mind its a 5eera. They were in your life for a reason and they left your life for a reason. Don't upset yourself. They might have problems. Be glad they left, you'll learn not to be attached. Even if they once meant so much to you. It's God's will. Free yourself, life doesn't stop for anyone.
There are toxic people. They will try to ruin your life so you could feel as bad as they do. They're mentally sick, don't give a crap. Let them go, be cold-hearted. Even if they try to make your life miserable, you know your worth. Don't le them bring you down to their life.. Smile. Kill them with kindness.
Don't let anyone break you. YOU ROCK!
There are good people, with big hearts. Like my Meriam, never did I meet a friend who cares for me this much. Hold on to them. Someday they might change, and you might hate it! You'll learn from them. If they leave you, keep in mind its a 5eera. They were in your life for a reason and they left your life for a reason. Don't upset yourself. They might have problems. Be glad they left, you'll learn not to be attached. Even if they once meant so much to you. It's God's will. Free yourself, life doesn't stop for anyone.
There are toxic people. They will try to ruin your life so you could feel as bad as they do. They're mentally sick, don't give a crap. Let them go, be cold-hearted. Even if they try to make your life miserable, you know your worth. Don't le them bring you down to their life.. Smile. Kill them with kindness.
Don't let anyone break you. YOU ROCK!
Monday, 13 May 2013
Genderism
Instead of saying "Sexism" I named this post "Genderism" which doesn't make sense.
Before any of you judge, sexism is basically being racist but with genders instead of ethnicity, religion, etc.
Before I start, two quotes I really like are :
Because I am a woman, I must make unusual efforts to succeed. If I fail, no one will say, "She doesn't have what it takes." They will say, "Women don't have what it takes."
~Clare Boothe Luce
The thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives you power. You just take it.
~Roseanne Barr
In society..
A girl follows a guy on twitter? Rude, she wasn't raised well, she's in a relationship, blah blah blah.
A girl doesn't wear the 7ijab (headpiece)? Bad, she's bad.
A girl is drinking coffee with a guy? Definetely in a relationship.
A girl wants to act? Ray7a feeha. (Bad reputation).
A girl cries? Girls are so overdramatic.
A girl's heart is broken? Move on, who cares.
A girl goes out alone? Her parents didn't raise her well.
A girl shouts at the disgusting guys following her in the mall? Attention seeker.
There are many more examples. حسنوا الظن. She might be chilling with her brother or colleague. She doesn't have to wear a headpiece to have a pure heart and to be a good person who who follows her religion. Some girls without the headpiece are better 3ind Allah than some girls who do wear it. Girls have feelings and hearts. Some girls know their limits. Just because some girls are actors doesn't mean they made huge mistakes on purpose. Stop judging.
And families: Don't be too strict on your daughters, sisters, cousins. They will wanna make mistakes just so they could get on your nerves (3nad). Loosen up a bit but make sure they follow the right path.
Why when a girl gets engaged and you find out one bad thing about her you leave her? What about guys? For example if a family finds out he's a player they still don't care. He'll marry their daughter. Why can guys go out alone? Teach the girls in your family self-defense, put boundaries for them and trust them All a girl wants is to be trusted. Stop being sexist.
*I didn't intend to offend any family. Some girls needed to relate. This is what most girls feel. They need to break out of that shell.
Before any of you judge, sexism is basically being racist but with genders instead of ethnicity, religion, etc.
Before I start, two quotes I really like are :
Because I am a woman, I must make unusual efforts to succeed. If I fail, no one will say, "She doesn't have what it takes." They will say, "Women don't have what it takes."
~Clare Boothe Luce
The thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives you power. You just take it.
~Roseanne Barr
In society..
A girl follows a guy on twitter? Rude, she wasn't raised well, she's in a relationship, blah blah blah.
A girl doesn't wear the 7ijab (headpiece)? Bad, she's bad.
A girl is drinking coffee with a guy? Definetely in a relationship.
A girl wants to act? Ray7a feeha. (Bad reputation).
A girl cries? Girls are so overdramatic.
A girl's heart is broken? Move on, who cares.
A girl goes out alone? Her parents didn't raise her well.
A girl shouts at the disgusting guys following her in the mall? Attention seeker.
There are many more examples. حسنوا الظن. She might be chilling with her brother or colleague. She doesn't have to wear a headpiece to have a pure heart and to be a good person who who follows her religion. Some girls without the headpiece are better 3ind Allah than some girls who do wear it. Girls have feelings and hearts. Some girls know their limits. Just because some girls are actors doesn't mean they made huge mistakes on purpose. Stop judging.
And families: Don't be too strict on your daughters, sisters, cousins. They will wanna make mistakes just so they could get on your nerves (3nad). Loosen up a bit but make sure they follow the right path.
Why when a girl gets engaged and you find out one bad thing about her you leave her? What about guys? For example if a family finds out he's a player they still don't care. He'll marry their daughter. Why can guys go out alone? Teach the girls in your family self-defense, put boundaries for them and trust them All a girl wants is to be trusted. Stop being sexist.
*I didn't intend to offend any family. Some girls needed to relate. This is what most girls feel. They need to break out of that shell.
Friday, 3 May 2013
"Love"
First of all, being open minded means listening and tolerating others ideas not supporting relationships and showing too much skin.
Falling in love is natural. But, how you react to that feeling isn't.
You know relationships are wrong, especially in Islam.
You know they most probably won't last.
You know people will talk, ruining your reputation/family name.
Try to step aside and not give too much face.
UNTIL you're old enough and you're extra sure you're getting married. AND inform your parents.
Cause for those who have experienced it or read blogs: you fall in love, you let go, you cry, you move on and your reputation is almost ruined. Get my point? There's no point of wasting your time in a relationship knowing what you're doing is wrong. Wait 'til you get married.
I can't tell you whether you can have guy or girl friends (there's a space between "girl" and "friend") or not. Your mother should know if you do instead anything get's serious.
KNOW YOUR LIMITS! And make sure that 'friend' knows there limits or you better run away, haha.
Anyways girls, if you need help or regret anything, talk to me on twitter or kik or even ask if you're shy. Or comment below (anonymously).
If you regret it and wanna make things better don't regret it. Everyone has flaws, we're not perfect! Still, that doesm't mean repeat that same mistake. Learn from it.
Falling in love is natural. But, how you react to that feeling isn't.
You know relationships are wrong, especially in Islam.
You know they most probably won't last.
You know people will talk, ruining your reputation/family name.
Try to step aside and not give too much face.
UNTIL you're old enough and you're extra sure you're getting married. AND inform your parents.
Cause for those who have experienced it or read blogs: you fall in love, you let go, you cry, you move on and your reputation is almost ruined. Get my point? There's no point of wasting your time in a relationship knowing what you're doing is wrong. Wait 'til you get married.
I can't tell you whether you can have guy or girl friends (there's a space between "girl" and "friend") or not. Your mother should know if you do instead anything get's serious.
KNOW YOUR LIMITS! And make sure that 'friend' knows there limits or you better run away, haha.
Anyways girls, if you need help or regret anything, talk to me on twitter or kik or even ask if you're shy. Or comment below (anonymously).
If you regret it and wanna make things better don't regret it. Everyone has flaws, we're not perfect! Still, that doesm't mean repeat that same mistake. Learn from it.
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